I’ve always thought that the line “You saved me.” from books or movies were little white lies. That it was a ploy to get hearts to flutter. Or maybe it was a trigger for all kinds of emotions. Maybe it was just for added effect, the cherry on top.
But most especially, I didn’t like the thought that I needed help to be saved or that I needed saving. I was my own warrior. I did not need a knight in shining armor. I’ve made it this far, haven’t I?
Here’s the thing.
I have gotten used to fighting this battle between myself and I with no one to rely on that I have been blinded. I have traveled long and far on foot. I have slain every demon my mind has conjured. I was way too over my head that when I reached the edge of the water, I did not hesitate to board the ship on the dock not realizing that it was filled with pirates masked as sailors.
I was outnumbered and the shore was already miles away but that has never stopped me before. This was different. This was more than just the pirates. This was every single one of my inner demons. For the very first time in a long time, I had this gut wrenching feeling that I knew that I was going to lose.
And I did.
Because I let it.
An anchor was tied around myself as they pushed me overboard and the moment I hit rock bottom, I never wondered how long would it take me to get right back to the surface, because I’ve accepted the fact that this was the end-game. There was still so much fighting that needed to be done that maybe if I closed my eyes and held my breath a little longer, then maybe there will be no more of this madness. The rolling credits were near and all I had to do was wait.
However at the very last second, when I least expected it, you came along and pulled me back up from the bottom of the ocean, anchor still intact.
Here’s the magic in the situation, there was always help. From the very beginning. I was simply too selfish and refused to accept a helping hand.
Being saved is not a sign of weakness.
I know that now.
Sometimes it’s okay to have an army or maybe just one soldier who has your back in this battle against myself. That’s what you told me.
This, to you my lone soldier, I say with every ounce of gratitude, “you saved me.”